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Relationships

Much of life requires acts of will especially when interacting with other people.

Ten Evaluation Criteria For Successfully Selecting A Life Partner

The author is fully qualified to expound verbosely on this subject.  She conducted extensive research using the methodology and protocols established for the  smart women who make bad choices in men Graduate Program of Matrimonial Disaster. This program includes testing marriage with one or more unsuitable partners who fail to adhere to one or more of the established protocols.

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Sometimes The “Trite” is True

In the 1960s and 1970s many books, films, and TV employed a recurring theme that was either done as an overused dramatic device or a hardly humorous comedy line. The cliché was “it is all my (insert appropriate parent) fault“. Viewers rolled their eyes, laughed, shook their heads solemnly, nodded, or just sat there waiting for the next line to be delivered and the plot to thicken.  However, for many families who may even have laughed there was too much truth in the script for comfort.  They may even have made jokes in their families or quietly complained to each other.

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I Was Asked For Five Reasons I Love Being A Mother

My friend at Eve’s Lungs tagged me to write a post about five reasons I love being a mother. Since I wrote about why I like being a woman, this is a natural sequel. Is there a post on being a wife in the wings?p1000875 300x299 I Was Asked For Five Reasons I Love Being A Mother

I will preface this with my philosophy of parenting. Our job is to prepare our children for the world they will live in and to be good people in that world. We need to avoid getting hung up in the minute details, they seem to take care of themselves. Teach them to solve problems and learn how to make decisions which means allowing them to make poor decisions and to fail with a safety net. Teach them to be kind and to stand up for others when they are being mistreated. Hug, kiss, cuddle and laugh with them. Tell them that we love them. Tell them we are sorry when we mess up. Keep our sense of humor. That’s enough! Continue reading

The Fathers in My Life

Today, I would like to acknowledge the important fathers in my life and say how much I appreciate what they have been to me and mine.

First, of course, there is my father who never used my gender to tell me what I must do or to tell me what I could not do. He encouraged me to pursue my dreams instead of trying to get me to do what made him happy. Later, he was the best grandfather a little girl could ever want taking her on drives and teaching her to fish and tie her shoes. I hope I have him for many more years.

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Panaceas, Problems, and Promises

We have an interesting way of informing people about health and medical issues in the United States. Endless advertisements in all media alert us to this illness or that syndrome with lists of symptoms and dire outcomes if untreated or the rapture of relief when treated. This public service is accompanied by beneficent proclamation of a prescription medication that will treat the ailment. The announcement of a treatment comes with urgings to speak to our doctor about that medication followed closely by a hair-raising list of possible side effects.

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My Artistic Vision

I want my designs to be unique, touchable, beautiful to see and comfortable to wear. I want designs that endure the current fashion colors and styles so that it will not end up under a pile of newer things by the end of the year. Finally, I want each piece to have an owner out there unknown when I make it but who will ultimately find it and love it.